Rick asks: How are the best ways for people to introduce
themselves to you, talk to you, and interact with you?
I like talking to people. I am
interested in learning about others and getting meaningful friendships. But
learning to interact with people is hard work. I get nervous around people. This
is because of lots of things. I mostly get nervous about not being able to meet
people’s expectations about me. I am smart but my body is not obedient to my
mind. It makes me look stupid, misbehaved, and foolish. That is why I am
anxious in public. I can appear like I am rude and uninterested in you. Please don’t
take my lack of eye contact and the way I walk away as a sign I don’t like you.
I am not in control of my body.
I like when people can see past my weird
behaviors and be patient to listen to me. Make me more comfortable by peaceful
patience. Learning to be social is hard but I want it badly. Please say hi to me
even though I look like I am not interested in you. I mean to say, “Hi, how are
you?” but it won’t come out. Be patient while I type. Be persistent with
getting me to learn about you. If I walk away from you while you are talking,
it means my body is nervous and needs to move to calm itself. Please don’t take
offense. I wish I could stop myself from walking away. You can follow me or
wait for me to come back.
I love my relationships in school,
church, at home, and on Facebook. I can communicate pretty well but I am slow. I
think the Internet has been a wonderful thing for people like me. I can talk to
many people at once. I can teach people about autism. I can write my friends
letters and texts. My good friends are people who love me and accept my autism.
Philip
My friend Kevin loves to take selfies of us with my iPad!
This was great to read, Philip. Finn loved it and curled up in my lap while we read. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for this post, Philip! It is a great reminder of how to interact with my son - and your friend - Max!
ReplyDeletePhilip, I love this post!
ReplyDeleteI always enjoy reading your posts, Philip. Thank you for helping so many understand, and get to know you.
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