A writes:
I am going to be
graduating with a music education degree in May and I am hoping to get a job at
a middle school teaching beginning band. My question is what could I as a teacher
do in that environment to help autistic kids who want to learn instruments, but
may get overwhelmed by all of the stimuli going on in the room? What do you
think would help you in that situation? Love your blog! Just discovered it
yesterday and have been reading it nonstop. It helped me understand some of the
autistic students I have had in the past better.
A
Philip writes:
I am a lover of music. Music plays a
mighty role in my life. I am moved by a beautiful song. I am moved by melodies
and good lyrics. Music is loved but sometimes it can be too loud. I am very
sensitive to sound. Acoustics play a role. I have apprehension when I
enter a room with hard floors and walls. Loud sounds bounce piercing
frequencies. They kill my peaceful enjoyment of music. I feel like a
glass man easily shattered by active waves of giant sound. However, I do not
want to be this fearful. I toughen up by facing my fears. I am losing my
sensitivity to loud places by going to them more often. I can go in church. I
can go in a gym and to movies. To face a hard environment, I am mindful
of me wanting to participate. I tell myself that man attains nothing by
allowing his surroundings real power to stop him from what he wants to do. I
try to withstand the sensory torment by stimming to calm my nerves. In my quest
to socialize I make my stims try to blend in. I cover my stims by
whispering to myself my own song to try to calm down. My advice to kids who
want to learn an instrument but get overloaded is to master his fear by telling
himself peace will be limited if you avoid everything that brings apprehension.
To put fear to rest, address the job of meeting his goal. Make a plan to get
there. Get help if needed. Learn to adapt. And when you conquer your
fear, and achieve your goal, you will achieve true peace.
You can help your students by asking
them if they can tolerate auditoriums. If they can't but still want to learn,
may they wear noise-cancelling headphones? You can also try to gradually expose
them to the auditorium. I am peaceful in the auditorium after a year of
trying little by little. Patient teachers are the best.
Philip's favorite instrument is the piano. He can't play yet, but maybe in the future...
